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50 Would You Rather? Dating & Marriage Questions

Would You Rather? questions are great for ice-breaking in any situation! Similarly, there is the “This or That” question, which is basically the same thing as would u rather questions. Each question suggests two (very difficult to choose) options and asks you to choose one and give a reason. Would You Rather dating and marriage edition is great for groups of adults or couples!

If you are looking for fun and appropriate questions for children, check out would you rather questions for kids! Or, you might be interested in some easy general knowledge questions.

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Would You Rather: Dating & Marriage Edition

Would You Rather? Dating & Marriage Questions

Have fun going through this list of would you rather questions for couples (or really anybody who’s interested in dating and marriage)! Questions and activities for couples are great ways to get close and know more about the other.

General Dating Would U Rather? Questions

  1. Would you rather be married or single?
  2. Would you rather meet someone online or in real life?
  3. Would you rather meet someone online or be set up on a blind date?
  4. Would you rather be in an arranged marriage or remain single?
  5. Would you rather date a friend or someone you met for a blind date?
  6. Would you rather plan a date or have someone take you out on one?
  7. Would you rather ask someone out or wait until someone asks you out?
  8. Would you rather date someone who is not that nice but very good-looking or someone average-looking who is very kind?
  9. Would you rather date someone who is older than you or younger than you?
  10. Would you rather date a very popular person or a person who isn’t popular at all?
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Would You Rather? Questions for Couples

Would You Rather? Marriage Questions

  1. Would you rather get married very early or very late?
  2. Would you rather have one child or 10 children?
  3. If only one person had to take parental leave, would you rather do it yourself or have your partner do it?
  4. Would you rather do a small wedding or a very big wedding?
  5. Would you rather have a very close relationship with your partner’s family or barely interact with them?
  6. Would you rather live in an apartment or a house with your partner?
  7. Would you rather raise your child in the city or in a rural area?
  8. Would you rather have an arranged marriage with someone who your parents approve of or marry your significant other of who your parent disapproves?
  9. Would you rather marry a very rich person who you don’t love that much or a very poor person who you love a lot?
  10. Would you rather have a child right after getting married or have a child a few years after you get married?

You might also want to check out these would you rather birthday questions.

Would You Rather Questions About First Date

  1. Would you rather plan the date yourself or have the other person plan the date?
  2. Would you rather go to an Italian restaurant or a Japanese izakaya?
  3. Would you rather grab a drink on the first date or plan it for another day?
  4. Would you rather text first after the first date or wait for the other person to text?
  5. Would you rather have the person directly reject or indirectly reject (like giving an excuse) you after the first date?
  6. Would you rather break the silence or wait for the person to speak?
  7. Would you rather meet somewhere close to or far away from your home?
  8. Would you rather pay or have the other person pay?
  9. If you don’t find the person attractive, would you still give it another try or make the first date the last date?
  10. Would you rather ask or not ask questions about past relationships?

Flirty Would You Rather Question

  1. Would you rather fall in love quickly or take your time?
  2. Would you rather go out for lunch or go out for dinner?
  3. Would you rather go out for dinner or go out for a drink?
  4. Would you rather go to a pub or a wine bar?
  5. Would you rather Netflix and Chill or go out?
  6. Would you rather go on a double date or not?
  7. Would you rather stay at your date’s place or go to a hotel?
  8. Would you rather hug for 10 minutes or kiss for 10 minutes?
  9. Would you rather date your best friend’s ex or your best friend’s biggest enemy?
  10. Would you rather send a good morning text or a good night text?

Challenging Would You Rather Dating and Marriage Questions

  1. Would you rather give up love or give up money?
  2. Would you rather date a friend you’ve known for 10 years or date a frined you’ve known only for a month?
  3. Would you rather cheat on your partner or have your partner cheat on you?
  4. Would you rather receive a love letter or an expensive present?
  5. Would you rather break up with your partner or never see your best friend again?
  6. Would you rather never get married or be in a polyamory relationship?
  7. Would you rather keep your relationship a secret for a while or tell all your friends immediately?
  8. Would you rather have a joint bank account or have separate bank accounts when you get married?
  9. Would you rather date someone who tells friends everything that happened between you two or date someone who doesn’t even tell that he or she is in a relationship?
  10. After getting married, would you rather move into your partner’s house or buy a new house that is perfect for a newly married couple?

FAQs About Would You Rather Dating Questions

Here are some commonly asked questions about would u rather? questions dating and marriage edition.

Would You Rather questions for singles?

Here are some great would you rather questions for singles:

  • Would you rather be single forever or get into a relationship right away (even if you are not ready)?
  • Would you rather stay home alone or hang out with your best friend and his or her partner?
  • Would you rather be around friends who are single or who are in relationships?

Would You Rather questions to ask a crush?

Here are some good would you rather questions to ask a crush:

  • Would you rather ask someone out or have someone ask you out?
  • Would you rather date someone who likes you or date someone that you like?
  • Would you rather have someone ask you out face-to-face or through text message?

Would You Rather game with a girlfriend or boyfriend?

Perfect would u rather quiz to go through with a girlfriend or boyfriend:

  • Would you rather fly first class or stay at a luxury hotel?
  • If your ex texts you, would you rather tell your partner or keep it a secret?
  • Would you rather text a lot throughout the day or have one call at the end of the day?
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Would U Rather? Dating Questions

Would You Rather Questions About Dating and Marriage: Join the Conversation

What are your thoughts on these 50+ Would You Rather couple questions? Are there any questions you would like to ask your friends or partner? If you know any good questions that should be added to this list, let us know in the comments! We’d love to hear from you. Also, check out great debate topics!

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